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writes: Hello. I'm a post-graduate student and I'm in another country studying in an exchange program. I have a lot of new teachers...and I think I'm falling in love with one of them. We only had onde nice and big chat and we like and pay attention to the same things. I invited him to dinner (by email) at a restaurant he was longing to go and he answered that he could hardly wait...I think he feels the same way too...or am I wrong? Oh, we only have 4 years of difference. What should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, Poor_Choice +, writes (25 March 2006):
I think you're treading on dangerous ground, it can be risky for both you and your tutor. You could just be feeling an attachment because of being in a different environment and having this guy being nice to you makes you feel more at home! the least I would suggest is wait untill your home, wait and see how you feel when your in familiar surroundings. and if the feelings persist then wait till your no longer his pupil; a relationship might be nice but its really not worth his career.
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reader, MissMo +, writes (24 March 2006):
you're both adults, and you can handle it. i would wait until this person was no longer your teacher/tutor to pursue anything, though. my last boyfriend of 5 years was my tutor.
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reader, dobby666 +, writes (24 March 2006):
 relationships with tutors can be very risky for the tutors job. Take more time to reflect on what is more important in your life at this moment in time.
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