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writes: Ok.. well i've been talking to this guy for about a year and a half, but we havent "technically" became more than friends. I had a boyfriend for about a year during the time we knew each other, but me and him always had a connection and had feelings for each other.He asked me to go to prom with him, and i had broken up with my boyfriend by that time, because i realized that i want to be with the other boy lets say his name is "Tim". Well when me and Tim went to prom together i had a very nice time, and he didnt try to pressure me to do anything i didnt want to. He was such a gentlemen, he held doors for me, took me to dinner, and they way he looked at me made me realize that he wouldnt let anything happen to me.My mother NEVER!!! ever let me ride in the car with boys, but i guess she trusted him. So every week since then we spent time with each other, whether he came to my house, or i went to his house or out on a date somewhere. We apparently have alot of feelings for each other, but he just wont committ to a relationship... he told me that he loved me and acts as if he cares for me, but sometimes he doesnt. He is going away to college so i guess that could be a reason why he doesnt want a relationship, but im willin to commit to him. Everytime i bring it up, he acts as if he doesnt wana answer the question... Plz... help me to figure out if i should keep waiting on him, or move on to someone else despite the feelings i have for him.. Thanks!!!
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reader, cupid helper +, writes (18 August 2006):
i think this lad has had bad relationships before hand and is scard of another incase it ends out bad. you should sit this lad down and have a chat tel him how you feel and make him understand and then ask him if he wants anythink more and if he doesnt then move on you cant wait for him for ever! hope this helps
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