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anonymous
writes:I have lots of these spots on my penis. Ive researched it and they are called fordyce spots. Ive met a girl who is new at my school, weve been getting on great and its very clear that its going to lead to more. Weve both never had sex before and putting it bluntly im quite nervous. I really dont want to fuck this up, can anyone give some advice on how to explain this condition to her. Last thing i want is her freaking out and telling everyone at school.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 May 2008): I know how you feel dude, I've been in a similar situation, where I was chasing a girl and was very concerned with my appears, down there, and honestly, she blows me all the time, and its all good. -You're all set. don't worry.
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reader, notlamc  +, writes (22 January 2007):
 I also have Fordyce spots on my penis and have done ever since I was young.
They have been of no detriment towards my sex life.
None of my previous partners and my current partner, have ever mentioned or asked about them, even when extremely intimate in that region of my body.
Don't worry about it. I think there is no need to tell her and if she asks, you can show her some information on it.
Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2007): I disagree with cd206, these spots are unbelievably common, so much so, I would say they are "normal" - not something you need to discuss accompanied with printed off material from the Internet, lol. Seriously - it's too much information. Stop worrying over nothing, you don't need to explain this "condition" as you call it. If she becomes your girlfriend, by all means, mention it, but if not, don't.Unless she's seen a huuuuge amount of penis's close-up then she's not going to know how to tell the difference between then, I doubt she even knows how different penis's come.Penis's, like vagina's, come in all different shapes, sizes, textures. Stop worrying over nothing.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2007): its not a big problem, and im sure she wont notice. If you dont see it as an issue it doesnt become one. So if she does ask explain to her, if not then leave sleeping dogs lye. It only becomes an issue if you make it one
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2007): Before you tell her anything or do anything make sure that you can trust her because u dont want her 2 spread stuff around the school!! Take as much time with it as u think u need to get that level of trust. Look at her actions and the way she behaves...is she mature? how does she handle things/situations? is she a big gossip?
Once u feel that u can trust her and she's mature enough to handle it. Then talk to her about it n give her info b4 u go ahead and do anything.
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reader, cd206 +, writes (20 January 2007):
 You need to tell her about it before you do the deed just so she knows. Maybe print some info off the internet for her so that if she freaks out you can give it to her and she can read it in her own time but really, any girl who would run off and tell her friends about this isn't mature enough to be having sex.
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