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*ngel_of_xbl
writes: alrite...their is this girl (r) tht i like...i mean she is the first person i have been able to see myself falling in love w/ since my ex-shattered my heart......well ne ways, R and me are friends...we hold hands all the time...we have talked about kissing, but nvr relle had the oppurtune moment to...well we used to b4 she started going out w/ her ex who is comletely in love w/ her still,now tht i can't have her my feelings have grown alot stronger towards her...it is hard for me to even see her w/ her b/f now...by teh way she is coming over to my house to spend the nite while her mom is out of town......i am wondering if i should still pursue her even though she is dating sumone. and if i should make a move on her on saturday when she comes over...i kno she likes me an di'm sure she kno's i like her...but i haven't flat out stated it and neither has she......so wht do i do? so i make a move on her on saturday?do i pursue her and try and win her over?or do i leave her alone and just remain friends(and attempt to suppress my feelings towards her)?plz help ASAP...
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reader, angel_of_xbl +, writes (15 September 2007):
angel_of_xbl is verified as being by the original poster of the questionalrite...update...she borke up w/ her b/f tonite..at a football game ...she said she was tired of him not listening to her...and she's still soming over...did she break up w/ him cause of me? help...
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reader, angel_of_xbl +, writes (13 September 2007):
angel_of_xbl is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthl u both for helpin so fast...
she is coming to stay the nite cause her mom's goin out of town for the weekend and she needed sum where to stay...she asked me! and yeh her b/f kno's he mite b coming over to chill for a bit w. the three of us.
no not relle...when she is w/ sumone she dosen't flirt w/ other guys jsut girls.
i have tried seperating myself from her but we have the same group of friends and we have same lunches so it is hard.i kno i don't want to mess w/ a couple...i hate doing tht (cheating or helping sumone else).
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2007): No, don't make a move. You can talk to her about how you feel though. She does have a b.f. so why is she coming to your house to stay the night? Does the b.f. know she's doing that? Is she somewhat of a male attention seeker?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2007): Don't do that. Why not take a togetherness break in your relationships for a while, and get your head together. You just might lose a good friend by messing up her ongoing love life. you might want to think about that.
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