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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi I would be grateful for some advice please. There was this guy I used to date but he used to mess me around. We used to be on and off, he never made a commit with me. In the end he disappointed me, he let me down and I decided to move on with my life. We hadn’t spoken for 18 months but he decided to reconnect with me and told me he liked me still and asked me to date. The reason why he messed me around due to personal issues. We remained in contact as friends but I kinda gave him the brush off as I didn’t want to be hurt and disappointed. Also I was studying my finals so I didn’t want to make any rash decisions but I was going to meet him after my exams. As my exams were approaching, I discovered on Myspace he met someone new. I made an excuse not to see him and ended all contact.Then 10 months later I foolishly got in touch with him and told him I liked him. I had no intention to break up his relationship. We were texting each other and I felt we were re-connecting. He was playing hot and cold with me. He said he wanted to try things again with me. His girlfriend and him were breaking up and getting back together. I never asked him to leave his girlfriend for me. In the end, he decided to be with his girlfriend. My confidence was knocked down. We both had a fall out and said some nasty comments to each other. I decided to change my number and move on. Recently he made contact with me (after 10 months not speaking) he was asking how I am. I didn’t respond. My point is although I’m moving on, I don’t know if I should respond to him so I can find out what he’s got to say or should I just continue to ignore him and move on? I’ve still not forgiven him how he spoke to me. Also if he makes contact again in the future, do I continue to ignore him? I know now I’d never be with him again. Thank you
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 September 2009): this one has a history of being messy. too many failed attempts, and probably for a good reason. it's not worth it. just move on, hopefully you will find someone you have a deeper connection with.
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