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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I'm in a tough situation right now and not sure what to do. To start, i'm dating this guy who broke up with his girlfriend early december of last year. They dated for 7 months, and although things weren't bad between them, she didn't excite him (however she is the nicest girl apparently). So long story short, we are dating and have been dating, but he still feels guilty over breaking up with her. She once stopped by to drop something off at his house when i was there, but saw a strange car so texted him instead. He told her he didn't know who's car it was, when it was mine. I'm not worried that he will go back to her (he broke up with her), but i feel like the other woman, even though i'm not doing anything wrong. We have a great time and stuff, but she's still a part of his life/seemingly mine. They stopped talking for awhile, then he mentioned something she said, and i told him that i thought they stopped talking, but he said she wrote him and email and he was just being nice. To what extent is his niceness going to ruin what we have? I care about him and i like him, but i don't want to compete with the nicest girl, as 3 months later, he still feels guilty about ending things with her. Should i let him go? I just want what's best for him, even if it's not with me. Any advice would be great, thanks!
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (30 March 2008):
 It is very generous of you to give him up for her
but love does not work this way.
If he loves you , thats that and final.
What belongs to you , will be yours unless you do not want it.
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