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writes:Hi everyone,I need advise. 2004 I meet this we were in love,we are not staying in the same town. He used call and ask me to visit,it was nice. 2007 he introduce me to his family then November(same year) I got pregnant.Following year I got a job to his town but he was not the same anymore. He was not visiting me,calling me or anything.He didn't even give me support durring the pregnancy.He was always making excuses.Even after the baby was he didn't care then I dicided to live him.The problem is I luv him, he always say he loves me but he doesn't even have time for me. Should I let him go,forget about him? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIt's very hard cos I love him so much.I tried so many time to move on with my life but I can't.It's been 13 months now.I don't know whather I should tell him to stop calling or it's over.
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reader, Honeygirl +, writes (14 April 2009):
 Sweetie, this man is a user and a playa - move on with your life you deserve better. He tells you that he loves you, this is a lie, because if he loved you and your baby he would have been there for you.
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reader, b.rye  +, writes (14 April 2009):
 Forget him. Don't waste your or your child's time with someone who's not going to care. I have a "three strikes your out" policy, and when I stick to it, I find myself getting further and doing better in the long run. This guy obviously doesn't know what he wants or what he's doing. His lack of support for you ought to clue you in to his character and integrity (or lack thereof). Love can be found with higher quality men also; men who will respect you and your expectations of their character. Any man who will get you pregnant and then not provide the support you need is a man not worthy of a penny you throw at him. Trust me, you're better off dropping the baggage before it weighs you down.
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