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writes:im talking to this girl. but i still want to talk to my ex as a friend. do you think its ok for me to talk to my ex as long as i dont do anything with her and not letting this new girl know im talking to my ex?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2008): Depends. How long ago did you date your ex, and how often do you talk to her? Also, who dumped who? Do you feel your ex is over the breakup, and does she know you are in new relationship? If you are only talking every couple of weeks, and your new partner is visible to your ex, it's ok, but if you are talking every day, or every time there is a crisis in your life, then you probably need to create some more space before being friends, and if you want to hang out with your ex, it will be best if you invite your new gf. If that would be too uncomfortable for your ex, then it means it is too soon to be friends in that way.
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reader, lil-chloe  +, writes (19 July 2008):
 tell her, its better to be honest. if its just talking its alright.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2008): No, of course there is nothing "wrong" with it. Just be sure your present interest knows you are just friends with miss ex. You need not even mention it. If present interest knows and is curious, then just explain you are only friendly now. If she cannot deal with that, she may not be able to deal with other things on a mature level, either.
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