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writes:I am 18,I started talking to him when I was 17,I have been talking to him for one year, I have spent so many hours talking to him, so much time its unbelievable,I sent him 100s of pics of me, to keep him interested, I felt like he was the one for me, He is 21, and lives in america, I don't want to give up on the relationship because Ive spent so much time and effort I put into it, but at the start he was the one who was into me, and I am always the one initiating the conversation for months now, and I don't want to be in a one sided relationship, he was there for me through a really hard time though, even though he doesn't know it, he made me feel happy when nobody else could, so I have grown an emotional attachment to him, and I just feel heartbroken that I can't be with him, and was wondering is the best thing to let go of him, and move on with my life and stop pursuing him? Thanks.
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reader, prodigal0x  +, writes (16 April 2011):
I've been in the same position and feel for you, its not nice at all. He may have realised its unrealistic for you to be together, and is trying to move on even if thats not what he really wants. Online long distance relationships are always a problem in the end, as they are quite unnatural and like you say, you feel as though you have such an attachment to him. I think you know what has to be done deep down, you will find it very difficult to let go at first, but over time you will start to move on. I hope it all turns out alright for you x
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