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writes: My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 5 years now. He travels for his job in another Estate of the country three days a week. I feel lonely and want us to be together all the time instead. He asked me to come and leave with him near his job, but I disagree with that, as I have a son to take care of, from my first marriage. My problem is, he doesn't want to help me financially when he's here. I live on a budget and would like to get some help from him when he's here with me. But he says that he already has a house there, waiting for us, why would he waste money to live here.I feel used and I don't want to leave here and start all over again in a place where I don't know anybody except him. He is my life miserable, but I think I love him. I am not sure sometimes. I miss him when I don't see him for a few days apart. Another thing is, when I am with him, people looks at us at the malls or everywhere, as he is not quite an attractive person, with some disability. I feel embarrassed sometimes. Is this love? Why do I miss him when he's not here? Is it best for me to leave and forget about him? I don't know what to do. Please help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2005): You need to examine your own motives for staying with this man...you do not say if you go out with friends or anything else, maybe that is why you miss him when he is gone...ALL of your other reasons for staying put are VERY sound,especially the family/friends support nets for yourself and your child.He is not offering you any of that.,,maybe it is time to cut him loose.
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