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writes: i've been in a relationship for 4 years and we've had a break 4 a few months when i was pregnant with our daughter because of cheating and catching him on datng lines 3 times he proposed at new year then i came home the other day and found out he had been on dating lines again for over a week and now i don't know wether to leave or try to work it out i just dont really trust him anymore
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reader, Clarey  +, writes (24 April 2006):
 You poor thing, how awful. I would only consider trying if he agrees to counselling together and even then it would be a last chance. He may need to work on himself first, or it may be better for you to be together from the start and you need good advice from a psychologist not a counsellor. Then your main priority will be rebuilding your self esteem and helping him have a good relationship with his daughter, but not a partner-type one with you. There are men like this who just can not resist the thrill of the chase even if they love someone. He is either a pathological liar or in trouble with an addiction. Best wishes.
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