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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes: i been with this guy for one half years we are long distance. we had lot of issues. he text or say sweet stuff when we fall out.if i call he hardly pick up or busyhe say we too young to be engaged im 20 he 23. hardly pay attention not that I seek it 24/7. but why would he want a baby without marrying? we spend a few days together every month planning on moving together soon im so tried of trying so hard have been thinking of leaving him because when we talk about the problems he sometime say Im demanding. he say he was stupid to be with his first ex and regret it but i dont understand why he cant love me as much. there is him and this other guy friend. always texting goodnight and goodmorning. texts or calls me about 3-4 times day. and he keep telling me to leave my man and be with him, that he'll treat me better this that. :S now i want know is it worth moving on or holding on?
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (3 November 2010):
I would opt out of this relationship because he's got his views a little backwards.. You're too young to be engaged but not too young to have a baby? Personally, I wouldn't be making a baby without a ring, some assurance on my finger. Not to mention, the fact that you're a little young and there's a lot of issues in this LDR.
Break it off since you're not happy, and you already are into this other guy who sounds promising. Your choice.
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