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Should I leave my fiance who treats me badly and give this other guy a chance?

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Question - (4 September 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 4 September 2009)
A female United States age 36-40, *tudentnurse writes:

I've been with the same guy since I was 16, I'm 23 now. Were engaged and live together. For the last 9 months he's gone ever night until 3 or 4 in the morning with his friends. I play World of Warcraft online and met a fellow Marine friend of my friend's. We clicked right away and have spent the last 9 months talking to each other on the phone for hours and hours a day. He says he loves me and I think i love him also. He lives 1400 miles away from me, but wants to move here and be with me. Should i leave my fincee who is never home and when he is treats me like crap sometimes and give this guy a chance? Just want some different opionions on the matter. Thanks.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2009):

I would suggest you to first meet the other guy before taking a decision. How can you tell you are in love with somebody you have never seen in the real life? A picture and a voice does not tell everything about the person.

As far your current bf is concerned, take your distance from him for a little bit, be independent, do your own things, he may be afraid of losing you and give up going out to stay with you.

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