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writes:A girl im close to being in a relationship with, talk to everyday by txt, and usually call end of the day.She has had busy schedule and is not free till next week. It has been 2 weeks since we met. I know she likes me alot, and I like her too.I wanted to send her something for valentines but i do not know her address. I asked a friend of hers who isnt around so no response. (I have dropped her off before but i just dont remember the address or how to get there)I feel like im missing out on this opportunity to surpise her with pleasant rose and chocolates (just leave them at the door)Is this a good idea? Or is it a bit too much?She doesnt want to meet till early next monday (i know full reasons, i know its not excuse)Answers on here will decide if i grab a rose and try find her address and drop off her a rose and leave (txt her after to check the door) Good idea? any other simple ones?Thank you Reply to this Question
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (14 February 2013):
 you don't even know her address.... umm NO do not leave a rose at her door...
bring it with you on the next date....
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (14 February 2013):
 You ask: ".... any other simple ones?"
Yes, let this Valentine's Day pass... without you trying to go out on a limb to impress this girl..... and get on with impressing her AFTER Valentine's Day has passed... and save your theatrics for NEXT Valentine's Day.....
Consider: if you try what you've asked... and it is unsuccessful... then you will go down in flames as a desperate guy who couldn't pull it off...... If you DON'T bother trying... then she can STILL have the hots for you... AND can respond, after Valentine's Day, when you woo her in such a manner that she can't resist.....
Goood luck...
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reader, Staceily +, writes (14 February 2013):
 I would say to just bring the rose and chocolates when you meet up with her next week. I'm a huge romantic but this seems to be a bit much when you haven't been together very long and don't know exactly where she lives. Bringing the rose and/or chocolates when you are able to meet up still shows you were thinking of her.
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reader, CMMP +, writes (14 February 2013):
For the right girl it'd be sweet, for the wrong it'd be creepy (since she never told you where she lives), but for most it would just seem kind of desperate.
I'd say don't do it. "Close to being in a relationship with" isn't enough yet considering she knows what day Valentines Day is and isn't spending it with you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2013): Well personally I would be delighted if a man did that for me! I say go for it :)
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