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30-35,
anonymous
writes: what is the best thing to do here is my situation. I dated this girl for a short periods of time but i really put my heart into the relationship. I always sent her good morning text and sweet dreams texts. I would have eyes for her and her only. We both knew how to make each other smile. A lot of people saw how well i treated her and said that she was lucky. She even said she was lucky and felt like i treated her to good. Well she broke up with me and then i went no contact to try and get her to realize how live would be without me in it. Sad to say i only lasted 5 days and i ran back to her telling her that i gave you 5 days of no contact for you to realize what live would be like if i wasn't in it. So after that convo we took things slow and then she started hanging with this guy she told me he was nothing she was using him. I thought nothing of it at the time but just realizing shes single she can do what she wants. Well we went through a ton of drama and she pretty much said fuck it and moved on. She started dating that guy like a month later. So i was pissed cuz all i wanted for her to say was that she liked him i would've been happy for her and would've gladly moved on. For someone to lie to me is really big so i was p.o'd i did digging and i told her what i heard and she was like i hate you and i don't ever want to hear from you again and i don't know you. Stupid shit like that and i drew the line there total NO CONTACT. She texted me like a month later asking how i was doing and telling me that she wasn't mad at me. I said "fuck it not worth it at all" at the time. I wanted for her to call me cuz i hate texting. Later i found out She was asking my close friend how i was doing like a couple weeks later. She dressed up and stuff and it seemed like she was trying to get a reaction or make me jealous. I haven't heard from her since i just heard that she pretty much doesn't talk to any of her friends. Im just contemplating if she is going to come back to me. If she realize's she made a huge mistake. I care about her a lot and all i want is for her to be happy. So my question is what do i do?? do i stay in no contact till she come crawling back and will she come crawling?
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reader, sweetsiepie +, writes (4 April 2011):
hunny if im honest i'd cut all ties with her and just let her go and go find someone else u can treat as ur princess cuz this girl dont deserve it u tried ur dam hardest and got it blew bk in ur face id say its time 2 give up go find another lucky lady hunny
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reader, Capri2 +, writes (4 April 2011):
Maybe she isn't that into you. Maybe she didn't made any mistake. Because you treating her like a princess isn't enough for a relationship. If she doesn't like being with you, no matter how good you are to her, there is no point in being into a relationship with her.Whether she will come back to you is something no one here can tell.
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