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anonymous
writes:I met this guy in a bar, we had a good chat that night, he gave me his number, I texted him, we went on a date, it went well. Then, we had text/facebook conversation almost everyday. He seemed really interested in seeing me again, and so am I. I proposed activities and he proposed some but for some reason, our schedule just didn't work. Now the date was more then 3 weeks ago. We haven't seen each other since.My schedule cleared a little bit now so I'd be more able to work around his obligations.However, this week, it feels like he lost his interest. He used to initiate conversation, now he doesn't. He used to answer my text somewhat fast, now he doesn't... I don't know what to think. I thought we had a lot in common and would really like to see him again...Should I keep on proposing activities or should I just let it go (and hope he'll start proposing activities again)?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2012): I've been in this situation a couple of times and from experience, if after three weeks there's been no contact, or the other persons level of interest or enthusiasm towards you has decreased, its been the case that they no longer wish to pursue things.
There's no harm in initiating a conversation with him, I could be wrong about your situation... But don't be too surprised if he doesn't respond or he does but tells you he doesn't have the time anymore.
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reader, Xearo  +, writes (18 August 2012):
He may have given up...I mean 3 weeks is a long time! But I see no harm in proposing an activity. Hopefully his schedule would be free as well. Good luck, wishing u success!
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reader, person12345  +, writes (18 August 2012):
 Nothing to lose by proposing one more activity. If he's not interested things will continue as they are, if he is, you could get together again. Go for it.
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