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writes: I was seeing my boyfried for 6 months. We had quite alot of ups and downs. I heard a few rumours that he was seen with another girl before, but he denied it completly and i could only give him the benifit of the doubt.Last Sunday he invited me to a friends party, i told him that i might be going out with friends but he begged me to come. So me and frineds ended up going to this party and i was having a great time. My boyfriend seemed delighted that i was there.As the night went on i lost all my friends and went looking for them. I spotted my boyfriend on the dance floor with another girl but never thought nothing of it and when he seen me he came straight over but she followed him. But she kept grabbing him and staring at me. I felt like i had interrupted something. But he helped me look for my friends. But he soon disapeared.I then spotted him and the girl he was dancing with sitting down chatting, they looked very cosy together. I didnt want to interrupt so i called him (i could see him and her clear as day) and i seen him take out his phone and reject my call, i did it again and he rejected it for the second time. I walked over to were they were sitting, he went white and she started mouthing off and tried to hit me, then her friend jumped in. They stole my new phone and scratched my face to bits. I was thrown out the club.The boyfriend called a few times and said that i went razy for no reason and that im tripping. He denied everything even though i explained i seen him, he got a bit nasty then told me that he didnt want us to end like this and wishes me all the best and hopes we could meet up soon and have a laugh about when we used to go out.I never heard from him and i had no intention of calling him but all of a sudden its hitting me how much i miss him and i do still love him. This weekend he has called several times which i have not answered and he has text me to say that he really misses me. I never realised it would be this hard, i check my phone every five mins, every one says dont answer his calls. Which i havnt But its so hard. Why can i still have so many feelings for some one that has done me so wrong?I am person that quicky forgets about the bad stuff and just sees the good stuff in a person. Should i carry on ignoring his calls or is it even worth talking to him.Thank you for listening
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reader, smeedle  +, writes (6 February 2006):
 Let him ring but do`nt you pander to his needs, stay strong and focused, you are going through withdrawl and this will last a few weeks, then he will be out of your system for good.
Best way to mend a broken heart is to meet new blokes and have some fun, dont get into any seriouse relationships for a while just show him that he is past and the future is looking good without him in it.
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reader, beentheredonethat +, writes (6 February 2006):
 Honey I am so sorry he treated you like that. Now he's calling and you wonder why. Well...lets see. Did the crazy hell cat dump him? So your plan B?
Did he stand up and be a man and say I am sorry...Nope. He acted like he didn't get it.
He lost out...that's final.
If he cared in the first place....he should have stepped up and not allowed the Cat to scratch.
Find a NEW man...and never ever look back!
He is a snake and does not deserve the glory of two chicks in a cat fight over him.
You hang Tuff and EVERY time that phone rings...just think about him not accepting YOUR call!
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reader, Lucifuge +, writes (6 February 2006):
you only live once, talk to your friends about it and they can help you as best they can
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reader, Shell001 +, writes (6 February 2006):
you're in a similar situation as me. my best bet is to call him say you need to talk and tell him exactly how you felt about that night and see what he says. ask him if anything went on as for you to recover properly you need to know all the information then see where that ges you
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