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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Last Tuesday this guy who graduated with me at my school decides that he likes me. So Wednesday we went on a first date and we held hands and talked. He tried to kiss me but didn’t. Leaned in to kiss but was unsure. It was nice and I could tell he was into me a lot. But we only knew each other for a couple of days. I saw him at school but never really talked to him. Then Thursday he called me but I didn’t have my phone on. So I called him back after work and we talked he ended the conversation with I love you. I said it back but its way too early for me to really mean it. He said that he would call me back when he got home and I waited for the call but he never called. Then Friday and Saturday we barely talked at all. Sunday comes around and I’m afraid that he doesn’t really like me. Even though we had that wonderful evening together. I went to his house and met one of his friends. People keep telling me that he’s not going to leave me or not bother getting to know me. I really wanted this relationship to work out and get to know him because he’s the cutest and hot voice boy I’ve ever dated. I feel really lucky to have known him. Should I wait for him to call me before I jump into conclusion that he never wants to see me again or talk? just asking what would u do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2010): there are two possibles (or maybe more) with either the very worst thing you can do is chase him at this point. Give him space, and time. 1) hes a good guy, and he's probably scared at how much he likes you. Give him the liberty to deal with his feelings. He knows where you are, he'll probably find his way back. 2) The other option is that hes a player, told you he loved you to get your defenses to lower. It didnt work and he's moved on? If so, then good ridance! Mal
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