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Should I just step out into that arena and find people to fulfill my physical yearnings?

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Question - (3 May 2012) 3 Answers - (Newest, 5 May 2012)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I've been broken up from my ex for a few months and I feel better about the fact that he cheated on me with one of my best friends. Our friendship will probably never return. Needless to say I am single and navigating through the muck of losers is unappealing. With my ex we had a very amazing sex life, 3 somes occasionally. I am interested in joining a swing site and club and finding a couple but I'm still very shy and insecure of my sexual inexperience. Should I just step out into that arena and find people to fulfill my physical yearnings? or hold back a while longer or enjoy my single hood til someone new comes in? I don't mind getting into a relationship because it's still too soon since the breakup and want no strings attached encounters.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2012):

Do whatever you want and enjoy your life.

But be prepared to accept the consequences of your choices later. People don't have the right to judge you for your sexual habits, but they have every right to find it unattractive or incompatible with them.

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A female reader, ashley2011 United States +, writes (4 May 2012):

ashley2011 agony auntYeah. Just enjoy being single.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (4 May 2012):

I wouldn't if I were you simply because its not very safe to be hooking up with strangers especially when they know each other but you don't know them.

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