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writes:I've been seeing this girl for about 4 months. We used to text message each other all the time during the day and well into the night sometimes till 3 in the morning. We were really close, cuddled all the time, and spent a lot of time together. However two weeks ago it all suddenly changed, literally overnight. We spent the weekend in the same bed (didn't have sex) and then the next day she started not returning my text messages, and phone calls. I don't spend soo much time with her now, and whenever I do she hardly talks to me, and doesn't show me any affection whatsoever. I talked to her about it and told her how I felt. She said she was just depressed, and it was because she just started on Birth Control. But that conversation happened last week and still nothing has changed. So I ask... should I just let it be and hope it passes or have I done enough??
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reader, Henna  +, writes (4 April 2009):
Wait it out....You did what you could by letting her know how you feel and that should technically make her "more" sensitive for your feelings. Maybe she will come back to you, maybe she would decide to change what you people have together but in any case let it be and don't worry. Both people have to work for any worthwhile relationship.
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