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writes:me and my best friend are usually joint at the hip, she is into al the thing i am into and we were pretty much inseperable for the past 2 years. However recently she has fell pregnant and i was the first to know. I kept it secret unti l she was ready to tell her parents, went to the hospital with her, and gaveher all the support i could when her dad gave her a hard time over it.However we went out for dinner 2months ago and i havent heard from her since. I text her nearly every day to see how shes doing, i phoned her many times but shes not answering my calls and i'm just so upset at the fact that she has just cut contact with me altogether. It has now been over 2 months and i have just gave up. There is only so many times that someone can chase someone before they give up . I text her and asked her what was up and she just said that she was in a routine now that didn't involve contacting anyone and i kind of thought that was a personal dig at me. I can't recall doing anything to her or can't recall saying anything to her that she found offensive.I really really miss her and have text her telling her this but i'm stil to get a reply, what do i do?? Do i just leave it and let her contact me in her own time or do i carry on texting her? I don't want to call down to her house, because i've a feeling that she 'won't be there' but i need an explaination??
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionher parents where over the moon about her pregancy when it all came out and afterwards they were both talking to me saying how happy they were so realy i don't think her parents are the problem, they like me amd have said that i was like another one of their daughters.
i have told me friend that i am here for her and she's known from day one tat i will do anything she needs me to do. When she was 6 weeks on she was experiencing severe cramps and a spot of bleeding and i rushed her to the hospital when she simply refused to go, so she knows i''d do anything for her. But seriously it's now been just over 2 months from i last heard from her, not a word, and realy it takes 2 mins for a text message. she's even been online when i've been on and i've tried talking to her and shes just not answered... I seen her on Facebook putting comments on other peoples walls, so i think it must be something personally to do with me.
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