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writes:Alright....This Adam Guy asked me (finally) if I wanted to be his "girl." Well, I said yes, of course. It's been about 1 week and 3 days and he still hasn't kissed me?? Should I kiss him first. There has been about 2 or 3 times when It could've happend. Should I? or just wait? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2006): I'm going to be mean as im honest and i think like this.
Every girl who misses their chance and gets heartbroken deserves them right, they should learn not to be sexist and think "the male should always make the first move".
if you want it so much and think its right go for it!! Dont worry about that most other females in society are still old fashioned and believe its the guys job!
I bet you he is thinking the same!
Most girls beleive they can tell if they will stay with a man by their first kiss, he is probably afraid that he may mess his chance up, go for it!!
otherwise, he will get bored of you, maybe you have a week left or a few, he is still free to go round kissing other girls, he may even get with someone else! so if you really like him and have feelings dont let him walk away or trust me you will beat yourself up about it, just look at some of the posts on this site, it will prove it. Hope this helps.
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reader, aminj +, writes (17 August 2006):
Go for it. Do not hesitate to capture the heart of a sloppy kiss that could get you walk on the air. I am sure he is keping away himself because of his shyness. Do it.
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reader, Astrid  +, writes (17 August 2006):
 GO FOR IT! maybe he is shy or maybe he doesn't want to be rude c'on is not that hardlove
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reader, snowbird  +, writes (17 August 2006):
 Yeah, just go for it..wait for the right moment, and just start with a soft peck, and look at him as though you are waiting for a response, smile... It does'nt have to lead straight into full-blown snog, or sex, (be ready for a strong reaction, as he has probably been waiting/anticipating!).. but if you don't want to just 'go for it' then why don' you just ask him if there is any reason why he has'nt kissed you yet - a sense of humour is important here, so that he can see it is not a big deal, just curiosity as to why? A good opportunity for you to find out more about his personality and about how shy he is, too. Have fun - and should it lead to sex, don't forget the condoms - be prepared, the slow burners are often the hottest!! (Of course, I'm not advocating that you DO have sex, especially if you are under-age, or very young/inexperienced/or if you are a virgin - nothing further from your mind, perhaps, but just in case..!) Take care, and be happy!
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reader, smeedle  +, writes (17 August 2006):
 Go for it, sounds to me like he is shy or the indecisive type. enjoy!!
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