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*ynthiaRenae
writes:This guy I've been dating for about 7 months used to tell me that he loves me and that I'm beautiful. But lately it's been fighting over really stupid stuff. He told me I was melodramatic when I honestly don't think I am and accuses me of being sad or mad over something when I'm not. For example: The other night I was laying in the bed watching tv and he was playing a computer game. I asked him if he wanted to lay with me and he said no. Then he says that I huffed and looked down. I don't remember doing this but then he spurts out "Are you gonna be sad now??" I didn't know what to say except to leave. This is not the only time this has happened. He talks down to me and makes me feel stupid. This all happened 2 days ago. Then the next day, he acted like nothing happened when I called him. But when he came over you would have thought we were strangers!! I've try talking to people about this but no one has an answer for me. Also, my birthday was last month and I got nothing. He told me he didn't have enough money to get what he wanted to get me. But that he didn't think it was a big deal. He didn't have enough money because 2 days before my birthday, he went and spent 300 dollars on himself!! I got over it (sort of) and left it alone finally (cause that was a huge fight too). But he had told me he would get me something on his next pay, which has come and gone. Did he forget? Or does he not care? Any suggestions? Should I just get rid of him and move on?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2007): just leave him, stop contact with him and change your number, the man deserves nothing more. Sorry but it looks like he may be trying to get you to dump him. He's a loser who doesn't deserve you. I dont think talking to him will make any difference. dont give him the satisfaction, just cut him off and move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2007): definately Looser! sorry to say this, but he seems not to love You, nor being capable of loving any woman!!You,unfortunately come across with those selfish,self concentated man who care about nothing but themselves.I had a bf (lucky im not with him, and glad he is Alone) really, when i was student and on low funds, bumped into my life,didnt give me any piece to have,wanting all my attention. However after a time he appeared to have salary of up than 50.000$monthly plus paid accomodation and everything. He bought me such cheap presents and made me in such conditions to pay his shirts!! Can u imagine! I was fool, and out of courtesy i did. I wont tell u the whole story after, but would say simply He is not worth Ur attention!Saying that he doesnt have money to buy u a present(it does not suppose to mean to be such expensive) is just an excuse for him not WAnting to buy at all!
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2007): He is a loser! I just broke up with my fiance and he sounds similar. He makes a million, but spent 2,000 on my ring and the next month spent 3,000 on a golf cart for himself! I had to pay for dinner on our birthday! And, he bought me a camera, but made me pay for something that went with it! I'm kicking myself for putting up with that cheapskate! On top of it, he wanted me to help pay the mortgage for a house he has owned ten years when he knew I didn't have enough money! Your guy doesn't understand that even a card would have been nice, but yet he spends so much on himself! Dump his sorry ass! (It only gets worse!)
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