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female
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51-59,
anonymous
writes:The man i'm dating sometimes goes to social events alone. He usually mentions that to me and sometimes he mentions that may be i could go with him. But he rarely is definite and makes arrangements. Should i insist to go with him when he mentions that to me or let him alone to decide and make arrangements? Should i mention that i would like to be with him to that events or show indifference and not accepting to be with him unless it is something definite? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2008): How old are you? Cause you two seem to be behaving like 12yr olds.
Why don't you ask Susie in class to ask him how he feels about you?
Mind you, both of you are childish.
Maybe he thinks you don't want to go to these events, hints that he is going hoping to hear you say you want to go with him?
This is cute in kids, in people your age it is stupid. If nothing else, when he hints you could go with him say "sure, if you want me too, would love too".
He wouldn't tell you about these things, let alone hint at you coming along, if he didn't want you to come.
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