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*llieb19
writes:I'm in a great relationship w/ my bf, he's 35, I'm 28. He treats me like a princess, is affectionate and we are getting married next yr. Lately we haven't been having sex as much. It's been over a week since our last time. I talked to him about it and he said nothing is wrong and our love is so much deeper than sex, but it still makes me feel insecure and rejected. I don't want to keep bringing it up, but love him and am not sure what to do...any advice? Should I try to initiate it? I've been wearing lingerie and I know he's been tired from work but it still hurts my feelings...
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reader, Madalo 1  +, writes (17 September 2011):
Pardon me i misread. Nevertheless, i think you should try iniating. If he doesnt respond positively then have a talk to know whats up.
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reader, allieb19 +, writes (17 September 2011):
allieb19 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI'm not pregnant...
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reader, Madalo 1 +, writes (17 September 2011):
He could be trying to give you space since you're pregnant...you've mentioned that he could be tired from work. Its possible that he doesnt realise how much sex means to you, since he's loving you in many other ways.
Initiating is a good idea, we dont always have to wait for the men to start. If he rejects your advances then its time to have a serious chat to find out what the matter is.
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