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writes:a 12 year old girl my boyfriend wants me to come over his hous tomorrow and have sex with ohis other friend who seems nice. what do I do, if I go I dont know wat will happen buut if I dont hell break up with me. I eed help please! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2008): umm well i think everyone has made it clear 2 u wat u should do, look im only 19 i had 2 drop out of high school and i have stuffed my hole life up because i fell pregnant no i can not give my son the future he deserves as i cant get a job and have no time 2 go back 2 school and 2 top it off and make it harder i have a bf with 2 kids as well so now im looking after 3 kids 24/7 i have no life and this could happen 2 u, no back 2 the subject lol i have been in ur situation before went i was 15 a bit older i no but i went through with it i had sex with my bf while under the influence of drugs and alcohole when i had finished having sex with him he presured me in 2 havins sex with his friend all 3 of them we split up the next day and i started dating his friend i didnt have sex with him that night he sed he didnt want 2 coz i was off my face anyway he dumped me a few days later coz i wouldnt have sex with him tha just goes 2 show u that once u do that u WILL be treated like a WHORE and a SLUT by guys and once that starts it wont end u will not lose the reputation of a slut and if they say they wont tell any one its bull shit guys cant help them selves they have 2 tell everyone so take my advice and walk away from the relationship u need 2 show him u wont be treated like a whore by him or anyone u r beta than that
goodluck sweetie
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2008): So dump him first, cause he is a scumbag. Good boyfriends don't whore their girlfriends around like that. Stand up for yourself and do not be pressured. You're much better than that.
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reader, Jamer70  +, writes (5 January 2008):
 cateyes i agree. Im not that old and i have no idea why kids at 12 are even thinking about having sex at 12. Look enjoy your youth and freedom. Go swimming watch movies, if i could go back to 12 i would in a second. You not old enough mentally and psyically to have sex. What if you got pregnant? What would you do? Leave your bf as quite simply he is using you period.
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reader, Cateyes +, writes (5 January 2008):
 YOU ARE 12...you should NOT be having sex at that age...PERIOD! IF anyone tries to force you, to pressure you into doing it....they are NOT your friends and you need to stay clear of them. IF your boyfriend is having sex with you, I hate to say this, but he is merely using you because he too is to young/immature to understand mentally or phsyically about love and sex and to understand the difference.
I think at 12 I was still climbing tree's....what's happened in today's world????? Be 12..have fun at the movies, with your girlfriends, go skating....just wait till you are much older and it might be wise to talk about this with your Mom to...as she I am sure would love to help and have you better understand all about sex. And even IF not, your counselor at school. You also need to talk about safe sex if you do or continue to do this otherwise you will catch a disease or get pregnant. FACT!
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (5 January 2008):
 Tell your friend to go get a life! You are not a whore.He is only using you . Don't be stupid.If you get pregnant, you will destroy your future and your life.
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reader, baybee-x-sparkii +, writes (5 January 2008):
 dont do it. if you only think he "seems nice" then your obvisouly feeling doubtful, and if your feeling doubtful then you shouldnt have sex. if your boyfriend is pressuring you then you may be best off without him. Your only 12 and could regret this for a very long time
Sparkii x
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reader, LouLee +, writes (5 January 2008):
 Oh my, i'm shocked by the amount of people talking about having sex at such a young age, you're 12! Ok, what i advise you is that you need to dump your boyfriend, there is no decent guy on planet earth that would tell you to have sex with his mate or he'd dump you. You should never feel as if you're being forced to have sex in any way and if you dont want to do it and his mate does it anyway, its rape....sorry to be blunt hun, good luck.
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