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writes:Dear cupid, I just broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years because we have major trust issues! We have both done wrongs to eachother but it became to much to handle for me. Im tired of breaking up over and over because of the same trust issue! Neighter of us want eachother to have friends of the opposite sex!! It causes major problems , but he thought we should stay together but even though I was tempted I said no. we try so many times.Another thing is im so young and not sure if I should settle down so soon, we been together since I was 17 and I wanna experince life before I settle down.now im wondering if I made the right decision because ill miss him so much but I cant be hurt anymore either! Im afraid to go back and be hurt! But im also afraid to lose him.. Any advice on if I made the right decision? Or how to make us work??
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reader, aliyahnangelo +, writes (7 January 2012):
 I think that you definitely made the right choice by letting it go. If the both of you can't trust eachother then you both would just keep being miserable if you stayed in the relationship. I know its hard to let go of someone that you love and have an attachment to, but its for the best. Especially if you don't think that you are ready to settle down yet, which you are young and still need to experience life a little before settling down. Give eachother room to grow, after that if it is meant to be then in the future maybe the two of you can find happiness together, whether it be as a couple or as friends. Remember that after a break up, everyday should be a little easier than the next. Good Luck :)
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (7 January 2012):
 It sounds to me like you have made the right choice. You need trust in a relationship for it to work or else you will both just be going around in circles and never moving forward. yes it is a hard decision and yes it is going to hurt and there will be days that you miss him and want him back, but stay strong, you know deep down that it is just not working and that it is just going to remain painful. Write down all the reasons you broke up with him and any time you feel like giving it another shot just look at that piece of paper and remember why you had to let him go. It will get better in time I promise and one day you will look back at this and smile. Just be strong and move forward. Good luck.
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