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writes: Me and my boyfriend had been going out a year and a half. Things were great, then he told me that he wanted to join the army. I knew he wanted to do this before we met but nothing was ever said until this far in the relationship. It broke my heart. I felt that he obviously didn't love me as much as I loved him. I felt he had been selfish. He had let me fall in love with him just to break my heart. We argued continously and we finally broke up. We both still loved each other but we both agreed it wouldn't work any more. He dumped me. We were still seeing each other as friends and then one day we ended up having sex. Every time we saw each other after that, even though we tried to resist each other, we would have sex. It was amazing. When we split up I was seeing someone else. This was a rebound thing and this bloke knew it. After 3 months of being apart we both still loved each other and we got back together. I found out that when we were apart he was seeing someone else, even though I had done the same thing this really hurt me. He still hasn't gone in the army due to complications but he will be going in May. Do you think I'm right to be hurt by him seeing this other girl? Do you think this relationship will work? Should I end it now or should I give it a go? please help xXx
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2006): it really hurt wen we were apart before thats why we got back together. i really love him and want to spend the rest of my life with him hut i dont think it is going to work, anytips on making it work?
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reader, mystify +, writes (15 February 2006):
 it sounds like there is alot of pain to deal with here and the main reason you split is still looming , personnally i would move on , i think after you both been with other people and are now facing so much time apart the paranoia and jealously would only increase, you have to weigh this against how you would feel to be apart.
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