A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: There's this lad that i work with. He flirts with me all the time but i get the feeling he is a 'player' and that the other lads are messing about with me. He previsiouly asked me out a few times but i have declined but recently i've been liking him more and more. He also flirts with a few others but not as much as me when i see it.
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reader, C.Xavier +, writes (1 June 2008):
Hello,
Well all depends, if you are thinking you might change this “player”, no way, it will never happen. If you want to hang out with him, knowing beforehand is one night stand, that´s ok, sometimes you do not want something serious, just meet someone cool, but that´s it. A “player” can not be changed, that´s why nice guys never get anything, they are predictable, but a “player” is wild child, he makes or gives the impression that he “makes” his own rules, it´s the child you want to change but you never will be able to..Depends girl..if is serious your heart will be broken, if is fun this “player” is the person to go.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionAlso when i go out at night and come back he asks me did i cheat on him and i say i didnt know that we are together and about a month back he asked me if i ave a boyfriend but didnt mention that he had one. He texts me lots and i find him really funny
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