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writes: there is a reunion for my middleschool coming up..one guy who is going i kind of have a crush on..i see him in the neighborhood at times but tend to avoid him if i don't look that great. I ran into him about a year ago where he was working..so we realized who we were and he gave me his email..a few months later i eventually looked him up on facebook. We exchanged emails and spoke about getting a drink to catch up but nothing ever came of it..so i guess he isn't too interested in me like that :( it would be so easy for him to write and say let's meet here or something but he doesn't.He "likes" a few of my photos and comments on facebook but i am sure he does that with others too. So i am debating about going tomorrow just basically to see him..but i will have to see the others i haven't seen him in years which may be awkward..i'm not the most outgoing person. It will only be a few of us; not too big of a group.I don't even know his type but i am guessing if he liked me or my facebook he probably would have followed through by now to at least catch up and have a drink... :(i guess i don't wanna be disappointed..i also feel like i wanted to lose more weight by now..he is a super skinny guy and i am curvy.Should i go or maybe wait to run into him another time? he is at a bar every thursday so i could always get a friend and go there next week and hope he talks to me.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (18 June 2011):
 Skip the middleschool reunion if you are not into it, and go to the bar on Thursday.
It would be different if you were excited about the reunion and looking forward to reconnecting with old friends and reminiscing about good old times, but it sonds that you are in fact sort of dreading that and you'd put yourself through it just for the chance of talking to this guy.
If you know you can do that every Thursday at this bar , it sounds simpler just reaching him there. You don't have to hope for him to talk to you, you can approach him and if he's in the mood have a nice chat. If that spurs him to action , to further contacts, and to concretizing that going out for drinks, cool,- but if it does not, just move on without regrets. It's good going after what you want- up to a point- after which , your interest can go from being flattering to being creepy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2011): I think it'd be good to go, because otherwise you might just end up wondering what would've happened if you had gone! :) If you don't go, you could miss a great opportunity to meet with him again. There could be any number of reasons why he hasn't been in touch, you just never know. I say go for it!! I hope it works out :)
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