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writes:Ok, this is kind of a strange situation. I know this guy who is friends with my uncle, and this guy is married to my uncle's ex. Lately, my uncle has been said that this guy has been asking him to ask me to come along when they go out for a drink. I haven't seen him for a long time though, and i've only seen him a few times. My uncle told me that he likes me. Apparently, he used to like my mum though too !. He is 13 years older than me, and he is 12 years younger than my mum , so its funny that he liked her since she is older than him. I also find it strange that he has liked my uncle's ex, his sister and his niece !. It was a long time ago when he liked my mum, before he got married. I did see him smile at me a couple of times when i bumped into him, but i didnt think anything of it. I thought he was just being friendly.Anyway, i'm not sure if i should go out with them both or not ?. Me and my uncle are close, but really, i'm surprised he didn't say he thought it was bad that his friend has kept asking for me to go out with them. What do you think about it ?. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2010): Sounds like a total werido stay clear!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2010): What's the harm in going out with both of them together? It's a totally different matter if it's your uncle's friend who wants to go out on a date with just you.
Be wary, though. He's married. Think about how it might make you feel if you knowingly helped a man cheat on his wife.
Also, it seems like this guy just LIKES your uncle's family and leftovers. Maybe that alone is a big red flag for you. I wouldn't hang out with your uncle's friend alone, if I were you.
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