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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I recently bumped into a man i dated 9 years ago,we never ended it we just drifted apart and pursued other lives,the attraction was still there and he asked if he could see me again and i said no as im not ready to be with another man due to past pain i was dealing with from my ex,he has since rang me everyday to ask how im feeling an to talk which i have and it has been helpful we went out for drinks and i enjoyed his company the way he treated me felt so special and he made it clear that he has a 2nd chance to make me happy and it is what he wants as he has never forgot what we had was good but was to young to realise at the time,should i go with my heart that wants him or my head and walk away for reasons i have not disclosed,we are also both single
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 December 2010): at least you know what you have..
risk it
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (26 December 2010):
 Well its kind of hard to answer when you are not disclosing the facts that is telling your head not to go there.
It's obvious this man wants you back in his life and you want him. But it's always good to go in to these things with a clear head. I think you need to sit down and talk to him about everything in the past get everything out in the open and talk to him about how you feel and whats holding you back and maybe the both of you can slove these issues and have a happy future together.
Good Luck.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (26 December 2010):
 Do you remember why you two broke up?
And I think you really need to listen to your gut on this one, seems like your gut is telling you this isn't a good idea. (for whatever reason).
However, if you enjoy his company, a few dates may not be a bad idea as long as you are upfront about not wanting to "date" at the moment.
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