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writes:There's this guy I like. He's 17 and I'm 14. We have been good mates for a while. I fancied him first and later found out he liked me too.We started flirting and stuff. Then I didn't see him for a few weeks as he has work, and I started to wonder if it was just strong friendship I felt for him.Then he asked me out and I said I'd think about it.Ever since he hasn't been quite as flirty as before. I'm told this is because he's waiting for my answer.Is it wrong to go out with him if I'm not positive if I have feelings for him or if it's just friendship?Or is there anyway for me to find out how strong my feelings are?
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reader, Thachorie +, writes (30 July 2006):
 WARNING: You are underage he isnt if you do go out wiht him it would be illegal for him to have sex with you, and this may put a strain accross the relationship becasue if he has been sexually active before he's likely to want to be again, this coould cause big trouble for both of you, so be careful. thats all im going to say.
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reader, hellagood +, writes (29 July 2006):
well theres pros and cons about this, i mean if u do go out with him, u will find out whether u really like him, or if it was just a fake thought because he showed interest for u...but if ur good mates now and u go out and things dont work out, it may make things akward for him and u as friends even. so i think firstly u should consider whether its just a passing crush or something stronger, do u think about him often ? if u dont want to lose him as a good mate, i suggest u give it a bit more thought :)
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reader, Bev Conolly  +, writes (29 July 2006):
 Going out with him is the quickest way to find out what your feelings are for him.
If there's a spark between you, then you're bound to feel it. If you're happier being "just friends" then you'll probably be more sure of that too.
If you do decide to go out with him, remember not to go into it with specific expectations. The whole purpose of dating is to get to know people! The feelings you have for a person develop after you get to know them, not before.
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