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writes:I don't want to do the wrong thing but I don't know what's worng and what's right.Well,about a couple hours ago at school one of my friends that's a grade lower than me asked me out.The relationship between me and him is:He's my cute,sweet,little buddy.He's alot shorter than me but he's sooo adorable.I never really thought about me and him going out cus I thought he'd never ask but I was wrong.You see,if I say yes it would be fine with me,if I say no if would be fine with him.But I know some people that'll freak!!I wouldn't say I'm very populor but I do know alot of people at my school in all grades.BUT there are alot of people that spread rumors of me just becasue I'm not like them.There all sluts,queen bee's,and ghetto but I'm not.So that would make my 8th grade life hard if they found out I had a 7th grade boyfriend.It WOULD get around fast becasue my friend knows more 8th graders than 7th graders and the the fgraders he knows are all brothers and sisters of the mean 8th graders.I don't know what to do.I told him I'll tell him next week.Can someone please help me!! Reply to this Question
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reader, baybee-x-sparkii  +, writes (25 January 2008):
 so hes a year younger than you? does this really make a difference, everybody has different preferences in their men and deciding because of silly people who will spread a few rumours is not that good. its obvious from what you have said that you are quite independent so keep your individuality follow your heart and brain and ignore the people that are trying to make your life a misery
dont let them succeedd :D
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reader, That Guy +, writes (25 January 2008):
I'd say who cares what everyone else would think. If you start dating him it should be because you're interested in him or whatever, not because of what others might think. I can understand your concern for their opinion, but I'd say its more important how you actually feel about him than what anyone else thinks.
As far as what's wrong and what's right I can only guess you mean because of the age/grade difference? In which case I'd say there's nothing wrong as its only one grade difference (which could be less than a year in age difference) so there's nothing wrong as far as I can tell.
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