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writes:Hey guy. I'm stuck in a small dillma. I have a 4 different guys that like me at ONCE!! Thier all my friends and eachothers friends. We ALWAYS hang out in a big group and they all prtect me anything. Well, like I said they all like me. The promle is,ironicly they ALL asked me out on the same day. The truth is I kinda like all of them. I mean,not one of them because he stalks me but yeah. I don't know what to do. How am I gonna decide which to choose or if I should go out with any of them. HELP!!! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2007): You can not date all of them - that would be cheating, and you would not want to get a reputation for that! You are gonna have to decide which guy you like best and say no to the other three.
Be friends with the others - it might hurt their feelings a little if you say you won't go out with them, but it would hurt them way more if you went out with all 4 of them and they found out.
Making decisions is tough, but it is what builds up a character. Good luck. x x x
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reader, Tigerlily +, writes (29 November 2007):
No you can't date all 4 of them if they are all friends with each other. That will just create a lot of resentment that will tear the group apart, and it sounds like the group is a great thing. It's very flattering that they all want to date you, but unless you have real feelings for one of them, I would just stay friends with them and keep hanging out that way. You can stay friends, and get a feel for if there is one you think you would like to get to know better in a dating way.
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