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writes:hi allok so hears the thing about 2 years ago I was with my ex but I left him cause he was abusive to me and would end up hitting me, although I did fight back, I would get the bumps and cuts . I was living with him then and so I moved out and back home and changed my number and blocked him on msn, then last week he emailed me saying how am I, and I emailed back saying im fine. He's saying how he loved me still and missed me and when he called me, told me and even his family said he's taken anger management classes and been doing well .I'm stuck on whether to believe him and his family and start to have feelings for him as I'm worried I'll get hurt again. What do you all think?
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reader, sweetheart22  +, writes (11 December 2007):
DO NO GO BACK WITH HIM!
Seriously my mom went through the same thing except she didn't take him back and she is very happy right now. Some things deserve second chances like if he didn't show up to a date, but cheating and abusing (verbally or physicly) are unfogivable. Please you'll make a huge mistake if you get back with him. I saw this on doctor Phil and DR. P says the same thing I am. Just know that he will go back to his roots and hit you again. I can almost gaurentee it.
Please don't make a mistake
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2007): Hi There,
Definitely not.
It's great that he is seeking help but he would be better off making a fresh start with somebody else and so would you.
Please don't risk it, especially as at the moment you could take him or leave him. Hang on and wait for someone else, someone that you won't have to handle a lot of bad memories of abuse with.
Good luck and please don't go back to him x
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reader, thatgothgirl20  +, writes (11 December 2007):
 Don't risk it. Don't fall for it.
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reader, keith5 +, writes (11 December 2007):
 be his friend. see if you two can get along for awhile before you get into anything sexual. you need to put yourself first because a guy putting his hands on you is never acceptable. words mean nothing, you will never know until he shows you. goodluck n be careful 3
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