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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:hey :)To put it bluntly my boyfriend will tell me that he thinks other girls are hot, and I LIKE that he's honest with me and obviously I realise he will find other girls attractive.But a few weeks ago he told me that as a joke, he got another girl's number, and at first I didn't react to it cause I trust him fully and know he won't follow up on it, the thing is though.... it's affected me more than I thought, I feel like it's affected my self esteem also, I feel like ugly compared to all other girls especially compared to his exe's who are gorgeous cute and pretty. He reassures me that he finds me attractive all the time but still, should I be feeling this insecure?thanks for listening :)replies would be much appreciatedx.x.x
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reader, thatgothgirl20  +, writes (11 December 2007):
 Tell him to stop telling you that crap. Also, about this insecurity issue, if the former females he dated were hot and sexy, why would he break the mold with you? Obviously, you have to have some good looks, if all his former ones were good-looking. Also, you need to take some personal time to build some confidence in yourself. Maybe talk to someone besides him about these issues?
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reader, IceBox +, writes (11 December 2007):
Hey hun,Well I understand how you feel. My boyfriend and I have been together almost 2 years and he still says other girls are pretty. His ex's are freakin beautiful but he insites I'm the only one. Just try to talk to him and ask him not to say that stuff anymore cuz it hurts you. I know it sounds lame and childish but It worked for me and my guy. I hope this helps.
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reader, IceBox +, writes (11 December 2007):
Hey hun,Well I understand how you feel. My boyfriend and I have been together almost 2 years and he still says other girls are pretty. His ex's are freakin beautiful but he insists I'm the only one. Just try to talk to him and ask him not to say that stuff anymore cuz it hurts you. I know it sounds lame and childish but It worked for me and my guy. I hope this helps.
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