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writes:I'm back with my dumb questions . Well, long story short ; I talked to this guy for a while . . We " fell in love " . . I moved to a different state . . Okay, we kept in contact and all of that. He became my everything. We never dated, but you can practically say we did. He ended up finding someone else. I couldnt do anything about that because i didnt feel i had a say in it because we never dated. Well, it hurt me, but i forgave him. He said he still loved me and all that. Later on, i find out that he had sex with her. He cried to me because he knew it hurt me. That was strike two. He broke up with her . . We were still madly " in love " . . Now he's back with her. That was the last straw for me. I told him that whatever we ever had, it was officially done. He cried to me, saying that i dont deserve all the crap he's putting me through, but that he was trying to do anything he could to get some sort of happiness. I still told him we were done. It broke my heart saying bye to him, but i feel i had to do it.I dont know if he moved on because he just moved on. If it has to do with the fact that I'm not there anymore. I dont know. I understand that the distance keeps us from being together, so the best thing to do is try to live happily and all that. I just wanna know if i should give up in him for good, or untill i unite with him again. We were both single, and we both had every right to do whatever we wanted. But does that mean that we can't confront each other before anything ? I honestly don't know what I'm truly asking, but I'm hurt and confused. Any advice would be great . . Thank you.
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reader, supermum  +, writes (27 November 2011):
 I would wait and see what happens, go with the flow as it were. Do not 'wait' for him. If you meet someone where you are, then go for it. If you happen to be single if and when you move back, and so does he, go with that. But certainly don't put your life on hold for something that may or may not happen, you are wayyyyyyyyyyyy too young for that..
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