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writes:So, my good friend that's a girl has a friend I met at a party and she made out with my friend and long story short, we friend request each other's hook ups on facebook and talk to them. So I jokingly started talking to her and it got serious and I got her number. We were gonna hang out this weekend but she isn't in town, so we're gonna hang out next weekend with the friend we have mutually next weekend. But we've been texting for about 4-5 days and she seems somewhat into me, but I always get insecure about things like this. Also, I think it could get weird texting her so much for another like one and a half weeks until we hang out cause we met but we were both pretty drunk. Basically my question(s) are:How can I keep her interested?How do I know if she likes me?What should I do from now on to avoid weirdness/awkwardness?And any other comments or anything I should do or know?Thanks!
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reader, WaltzinginTryst  +, writes (18 March 2011):
 Its easier to keep someone interested if you have one or two things in common and can activily keep a discussion (or playful argument) up on the topic(s), people react differently but making someone smile was always a winner.
"How do I know if she likes me?" Its a question that runs in the back of everyones mind in the early stages, your not alone on that (I swear :)) There are a few things to look at, from body language, to what I term "opening the door" for a second date.
From what I understand from your question the "setup" for next weekend is yourself, the lady in question, and the mutual friend. If I were in your shoes, and it sounds a tad sneaky / under handed but, in order to get the results or answers it has to be done. If the mutual friend is a guy then you may want to find out if he's into her or not. If he's not great then you a wing man on stand by :P If the mutual friend is a girl then its important not to come across as being the "macho, more brawn than brain" to impress (learnt that a long time a go :P) It sounds a bit cliche but be yourself goes a longway in a girls mind than it does in a mans.
You can't really avoid awkward moments, all you can do is take them head on and laugh about them.
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