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writes:for what happened the second time this is the link i ended up giving her another chance but im not sure if i should give her another.http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-really-dont-understand-her-actions.htmlwell anyway when i first met her she told me she was a virgin and i honestly didnt care if she was or not but if u read frmo the first question she ended up pressuring me into sex. So it has been about a month since i started seeing her again and she has been well slipping up here and there telling me o this guy fingered me i gave this guy oral so i wasnt really sure if she was telling me the truth so i asked one of her exes about her and he told me she was most deffinately not a virgin but rather a sex addict and she has been lying to me and about 3 days before i asked him i was with her and i told her to come clean about everything and i promised i wouldnt be mad but she said she had told me everything i know he was telling the truth because of certain things he said and when i told her she denied it and then i caught her up in it with evidence and she keeps telling me she is sorry and mad at her ex for telling me but she shouldnt be mad at her ex this is stuff i really needed to know but i feel like she ignores my texts and calls alot and theres the possibility she could be cheating on me and even after i told her to delete my number from her phone she said she wouldnt do it but she has made no attempt to try and talk to me about getting me back but i know she is going to soon because its wat happened last time and when she does i really dont want to but should i give her one more chance?
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reader, MissDesire +, writes (22 January 2009):
 I am sorry to say this, but this isn't a good situation for you. If she is in fact a sex addict, she will say anything you want to hear to be satisfied. If she is lying to you about something as trival as that, how can you trust her in a relationship down the road with more important things. She's not worth the stress she has put on you and she needs to realize that you will not be there when she needs you. Put your foot down, don't answer when she calls and maybe she'll realize she needs to clean her act up if she ever wants to have a meaningful relationship.
Feel free to message me if you need to talk further.
~Des
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni really do love her and i want to keep her but i cant stand people who lie to me
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