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female
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26-29,
*mysuperlovexxx
writes:hey i got dumped a few days ago and this guy really broke my heart he went out with me 3 times then dumped me and went out with all my mates what shall i do shall i get revenge on him or leave it? please help!!!!!!!!!!!!
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (9 June 2012):
 If you try to get revenge on him, all you will do is make his ego even larger. He'll think he's the center of your world. Is that really what you want him to think?
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (9 June 2012):
 Leave it.
I know you feel wronged and wish to teach this man whore a lesson...but honestly it's not worth the trouble and time. He won't learn anything or much less realize you're taking a swipe at him. In fact, he most likely will not be phased about your mission to get revenge.
Chalk it up as lesson learned; guys can be arses. Next time be cautious about the boys you date, before investing any emotions. You will get hurt quite a bit if you continue to do so.
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (9 June 2012):
 You need some perspective, as Aunt Honesty said, it was only three dates.
The best thing you can do for yourself is to acknowledge to yourself the three dates may have been fun, but that you are lucky you found out he wasn't the one for you until after 103 dates.
The best form of revenge is success. Be the best person you can be, be friendly to all, don't indulge in bitchy games, don't try and 'pay back' for such a minor thing, succeed at life, and leave him for dust in your wake!
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (9 June 2012):
 Just leave it. At the end of the day it was only three dates so it was not like you where with him for three years. Yes he hurt your feelings and he betrayed you. But you should be the bigger person and just forget him. Don't try to get revenge as it is childish and could back fire on you.
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