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*'hara20
writes:i broke up with my Fiance on Monday. We have been together for four years and i have always thought ive been really happy. however im currently in America studying until christmas ive been here since August, and since coming here ive realised how boring my life actually is with him. its always me making the effort, he cant even come to my house without being three hours late, so im always at his. he does motocross every weekend from march til november so we never go out during this time, this has led to me having no friends as i just end up going with him. his family literally do my head in , they all solely depend on his mother who thinks she knows everything and wont hesitate to tell you her opinion even if its offensive and hurtful, and to top it off him and my family dont get along either... we are very different people and its only now ive broke up with him that hes promising to change. he wants to quit motocross and spend more time with me, go travelling and allow me some freedom, however i dont think its that easy as just the past two three months we have fallen out more than the the rest of our relationship..... i feel so bad as he tells me how much he doesnt want to lose me and the fact that hes being so nice isnt helping, i even had a bouquet of roses delivered to my apartment this afternoon from him. (hes back in England btw)...... im just so confused... am i doing the right thing? my family thinks i am but i dont know. hes such a big part of my life but ive also realised i wont be happy with the same life when i return..... sorry its a long one, trust me i have shortened it... any help shall be appreciated... im 20 and hes 23 btw
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reader, be11is +, writes (11 November 2011):
 Hey,I'm currently going through the same situation, so maybe we can help each other out, lol! My ex basically played the same card after we broke up for a little bit. They say all this stuff that their going to do, but do they really do it? No, maybe for the first month or so, but that's it. However, maybe its different with your man, it's all up you.I always thought if your family doesn't like who your choosing to spend your life with, there's a reason for it. Sooner or later you'll really understand why they don't like him very much.Your still very young, you should live your life however you want! Maybe you guys could take a break if you don't want to officially break up yet. Whatever you do, I hope it all works out in your benefit!- Be11is x
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