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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I went out with this boy last year for about a week but then I ended it because I didn't want my heart broken. I still had feelings for him...we didn't talk for a couple of months.. then he started going out with this girl and I kind of got jealous... I was not talking to him during that time.. I ended up hearing he broke up with that girl... and I wanted to tell him I still had feelings for him.. but then I decided why I even stopped talking to him... so yeah we became friends and I liked it so much.. we always be silly together and be mad random when we talk.. then he ended up breaking up wit that girl... so one day we we were playing basketball and I told his little brothers that I liked him still and told them to tell him when I was not around.. but I didnt know he had recently had a new girlfriend... so I was crushed.. I wanted to forget about him.. so this boy is so funny and it is his best friend..I liked being round him too.. but I started to like his best friend and I was gonna tell his best friend I have feelings for him so I text him to ask him would it be weird if I would go out with his best friend he was like its ok because their friendship is different... but idk how the topic came up about the whole telling his little brothers I liked him and I admitted I did still had feelings for him but I was trying to get over... and he was like still said he did too still like me...[yes he had broken up wit his recent girl] so after that text we've been talking n hanging out.. he said so much things.. and I thought it was for real because I looked so messed up with my hair messy sweatpants and baggy shirt and he said "you look beautiful, your amazing" I was in awe moment... it was close to the end of the school year...so I notice a changed in him like differently... so I asked him and he said he was going through things... so I left it alone since he didn't want to talk bout it... so a month later I text him asking if he is ready to be with me he said idk not anytime soon.. I was like oh ok.but I cried... we hardly text after that or seen each other.. now a couple of weeks ago I hear from my best guyfriend he said that he started to go out with this girl that graduated from my school and he is a sophmore.. so I cried and cried for days.. I deleted his facebook myspace and number but I remember his number n so I text him not expecting he would text me back but he did... so I asked him do u go out wit______ he said yes n I replied oh ok but he never replied... I couldn't believe.. im trying to get over him but I can't... its hurts to know that but I don't want to let go even though he hurt me I think I might give him another chance even when friends say no.. I still do like him and even maybe love him... I don't know what to do anymore.
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reader, ...........  +, writes (1 August 2009):
hi, this all sounds rather complicated too me girlie, one question....why do girls always want guys to make the first move??? that personally gets right up my nose, i wud love a girl to make the first move....mayb he will too if u like him? go too him and be different to other girls...stand out to him, as the one that likes him alot, basicly get in there! hope iv helped :P
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