A
female
age
30-35,
*ovesagiftkeepitsafe
writes: hello all, Theres this really nice lad at college and we get on so well, we flirt a bit and kiss and cuddle only as friends. He says he wants more than just friendship from us, i like him loads and don't want to loose him in any way but, i have a boyfriend and i know he has a girlfriend, but me and my boyfriend have been arguing a lot lately and this other guy said hes willing to give up his girlfriend for me. Ive asked a few of my friends and they said i should follow my heart what shall i do? please help!!!
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reader, Laura1318 +, writes (8 February 2008):
You need to re evaluate your b/f and then decide if you still want to continue or to terminate it. You need to address this issue first.Then you can move on with your life.
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male
reader, kenny + ♥, writes (7 February 2008):
Your friends are right you should follow your heart. But what i would say is if you really like this guy the the decent thing to do would be to finish your current relationship first. Don't lead your boyfriend on, or two time him, be open and tell him the truth. Then after time you can go after this other guy with a clear conscience.
All the best x
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