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female
age
30-35,
*pendy
writes:Why is he doing this? should I even speak to him agin?I love my ex boyfriend so much but he dumped me saying he doesn't want a relationship.A few week later he asked to be friends but I said I still loved him and can't be just friends.5weeks later we spoke again, he asked me to the movies but then I said I can't remember how he looks like anymore:(He said we shouldn't go to the cinema cos it will bring back feelings for me. He wants me to move on to a better guy that will treat me right.Then 2days ago he emailed me saying he was tired and he can't remember what he said to me and it wasn't him talking.Should I email him back anything? Or ignore him.Thanks..x
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reader, heytay  +, writes (6 July 2011):
I honestly think that you guys need to see each other in person. Somewhere not the movies, but maybe a coffee joint. You both neeed to talk out your feellings for one another. I think he just wants whats best for you, but he doesn't think he can provide that for. And obviously you still have feelings for him. Just sit down with him and discuss what you both think on the situation. Email back asking if he wants to talk, and if he says no you have your answer. That it's time to move on for you.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (6 July 2011):
 I really don't know what he is trying to do here. I think maybe a part of him misses you and wants to be friends with you but he is just not wanting a relationship at the moment. I always find that if you are not over an ex it only causes more hurt and pain if you keep in contact with them and try to be friends. It really is up to you if you want to email him back or not to see what is going on with him. But trying to be friends really is not a good idea if you are not over him.
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