A
female
age
,
anonymous
writes:My husband and I are emotionally separated, but not financially; he works abroad and only comes home 3 times a year. I really fancy a man going through a divorce, and have met him vaguely though social functions, as our kids are at the same school. We're both in our 40's.I could never ask him in person to go on a date as I'm shy, but do you think I could e.mail him to see if he'd like to meet up for a drink? His divorce will soon be finalised.
View related questions:
divorce, shy Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks everyone, you've given me more confidence to e.mail him. Once thing that worries me is that he may think the timing stinks as he is still 'going through' a divorce, I think it will be finalised in a matter of weeks, but don't know for sure.
A
male
reader, Tommy7  +, writes (12 October 2007):
An email is as good as any way to start an affair.
...............................
A
female
reader, Titania70 +, writes (12 October 2007):
What you're asking is for permission to be unfaithful to a husband you no longer feel a connection with. What are you looking for, an emotional replacement or just a bit of fun? You need to reflect on what you're after first. What's the point of a marriage if your heart is not in it anymore. Wouldn't it be better to sort things out with your husband first, ie arranging a divorce and then see what happens with this other guy? Be mindful and respectful to your husband and to yourself. Affairs lead to confusion in the long run. If you're aware of that and you enjoy the confusion though, then go for it. I believe in karma and I personally wouldnt like to do something to someone that I wouldnt want to be done to me. Hope this does not sound judgemental but might be helpful to reflect on what it is you really want. Good luck!
...............................
A
female
reader, Basschick  +, writes (12 October 2007):
 I think it's okay to drop him a quick e-mail and invite him out and then see what happens.
...............................
A
female
reader, angelblueeyes +, writes (12 October 2007):
 Hi,
I think that would be a great idea to email him saves on the wrong words coming out and feeling all embarrassed, I'm sure if you have been chatting with him you will know weather or not he is into you, Good luck with the email!!
...............................
|
