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female
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51-59,
anonymous
writes:I met a guy at work. I am 38 he is 28. We flirted a lot the first two months, and I confessed to him that I liked him and would not rule outthe possibility of friends with benefits. He seemed to like the idea at the time because we were both fairly new to the job and I had just ended a relationship and moved down to this area. By the third month he asked me out to a movie ( on a Friday) he would be leaving for a week on business. I thought for sure we'd end up in bed that night, but all we did was watch a movie, walk around and talk. It wasn't a bad date just not what I expected. It ended early, because we both had busy mornings. But he texted me an hour after date ended to apologize for being so shy and not making a move. Then we talked later that night. General chit chat...Well since he has returned, no more flirty banter, but he still texts and calls and at work we have lunch together. He bought me some lollies back from the business trip. On occasion he hugs me and cheek kisses, which is sweet but I am confused. So is this no FWB? Is this now just a friendship? Should I douse my burning flames of desire for him? What is going on? We are both single no kids, I am all alone in this new city with no family and a handful of friends....
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2010): I think that he is looking for a relationship xxx
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (22 May 2010):
 Some men like older women, some like younger women. Maybe he thinks because you are older then you should be in charge. He maybe is not comfortable with a workplace relationship. The good thing of not having a label is that you can keep yourself available outside of the workplace. Be happy, explore the city with eyes full of hope. Keep it burning. Let the right guy approach you. Just because you are new to the city would make you irresistible to a lot of men.
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