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writes:My dear cupid friends please I need your help now. I met a guy in September and we started dating for almost a month. Our date was perfect and we had a lot of fun but there was things like him smoking that I didn't like so I asked him to stop and he said we are two different people and he also said "You don't like what I do". we ended up broken up and he started calling me and texting after our break up. I didn't wasn't to talk to him so I told him not to contact me and he didn't listen and I was confuse why he would contact me if he didn't want any kind of relationship with me. one thing that I forgot is he said he didn't know what he wanted. I accepted that breakup but there is times I would think about him. the last time he spoke to me was November on thanksgiving day. so before we broke up he introduced me to his brother he works in a company that sells vitamins. and I decided to but it and we would talk via text now and then. last time I was asking him some questions. I said to him what are you going to do if I fall in love with you ? he responded I be happy. and he asked me the same question and I said I be happy. if I don't talk to him for a while I miss him. he saw my pictures on fb and he said I didn't think you were this beautiful. he said you are really beautiful. I am falling in love with him and his brother was my ex . I only kissed his brother but I don't know if its an appropriate thing to fall in love with my exboyfriend brother. he said I relate to him in so many ways. he said I want so many things in life , I have a dream and success. I really like him . I just need help figuring this out. should I date him and tell him that I like him? please help me .
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reader, Muscle and Sinew +, writes (14 January 2014):
 It's not that it's tacky. Its just night right to get involved with your ex's family member...you're going to see his brother at family functions...it's going to be hard to dismiss that. Ppl use the word "I love you" so loosely now days. Love means that you're planning on being committed to a person...sacrifice...maybe its a crush because he's paying attention to you...noticing you...while his brother didn't seem to care. Go out, meet new ppl...things will get better. If you're in doubt about where its going...listen to that voice...you need to be all in with no hesitations to be in a relationship! Good luck! :)
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reader, Ciar  +, writes (12 January 2014):
 Tacky. No, I do not think you should date him. And I don't think you should even hint about love with someone you hardly know.
OP, you must be more formal in your dealings with men until you know them well. You're opening up way too soon here.
Slow down and think about what you're doing instead of getting caught up in your feelings.
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