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writes: Well, hi there...Me and this guy started talking a year ago. After two weeks of constant texting and hanging out a few times, he asked me to be his girlfriend. I said yes, but we only dated for about a month, because he started talking to his ex girlfriend, which he was still in 'love' with. So together, we decided that it would be best to break up. I acted totally cool about it, but I felt horrible. We stopped talking for a week, but we couldn't take it any longer, and started talking again. so its been a year and we still constantly talk and hang out alll the time, he feels like my best friend. We go on dates a lot, he drives me home from school everyday. He bought me 50 boxs of candy canes for Christmas, because I'm obsessed with candy canes. He also got me a sippy cup, because I spill all the time. It was cute, he's adorable. We makeout and cuddle. ..but we're not together. The thought of him with another girl kills me inside. I know he's way too good for me, there are sooo many girls all over him all the time. Also, he's going to college in the fall, he'll be in a diffrent state. But he's all I think about it, even after a year. Long rant, I'm sorry... My question is, should I countinue this long lasting 'thing' we have? I know I'll get hurt in the end. Helppp, please.
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reader, angelDlite  +, writes (23 June 2011):
 you said yourself that you will get hurt in the end, i know its hard to make the break from someone even when we know they are no good for us, but this is gonna happen sooner or later. don't be telling yourself that he is too good for you!! why would you think that? have a bit more confidence in yourself.
i think that being with a guy like him who is happy enough to have you keep him company and to make out with but does not want a relationship with you is doing nothing to make you feel good about yourself.
there are plenty more guys in the world. why are you settling for one who does not want to give your something more substantial?? this 'thing' you have got going on seems to be all on his terms and that ain't fair
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