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30-35,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend and i have been broken up for a little over 3 weeks now. we have not talked. we broke up because we were bickering too much. we were together for 2 years. i miss him and want him back. should i contact him?? i have been going out and keeping myself busy, its not that im moping around, i just want to get him back and not let him pass by.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2010): I think you need to assess the reasons for the bickering before you make contact with him. The majority of relationships go through a phase where it’s difficult to reach common ground on issues. You should figure out why the bickering started and if it’s worth it to start that up again. Were future plans the issue? Attitude problems? Financial issues? Giving yourself 3 weeks apart from him was a smart move, as you’ve got room to think clear now. If the reasons for the arguing are something that can be fixed by a better communication, then you should feel good about approaching a possible reconciliation! Depending on whether he's made attempts to reach out to you also come into play. A lot of things can change in 3 weeks, so it's important to not get your hopes up and stay realistic about yours and his feelings and if they've changed. All in all, I wish you luck! It's worth it to fight for the relationship if it can be repaired. :)
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